Indy and Shayla

Hey, everyone. My name's Indiana Jones, but some call me Indy for short. I'm one of the therapy horses, here at Reins of Life and have called this happy place my home for almost a year now. Everyone here, both horses and staff are thankful that the winter is coming to a close. While I was grateful for the break, I missed warm weather, dry ground, clear skies, and, most of all, my little riders. The winter break was rather difficult, with the weather being so unpredictable and gloomy. However, it was made even more difficult by the event of my friend Maverick's sudden death. No one knew what was wrong with him, not even the vet. He went quickly and peacefully, but everyone misses him. Especially me. However, I am doing a bit better now that the sessions have started again. Keeping occupied and working helps us horses relax. A few weeks ago, we started working with some new clients. I remember the day that the bus pulled up. I was expecting a group of children to spill out of it, but instead came a group of women. They all looked exhausted, and some were nervous. It was apparent that none have them had ever been around horses before. It also made me a little shy at first. They were not what I was expecting, and I could sense something off about some of them. However, after spending a bit of time together, I got to know one of the young women named Shayla. Shayla was small and very shy. She had a lot on her mind, and looked like she was in a lot of pain, not physically, but emotionally. You see, I overheard some of the staff talking, and it became clear to me that these women had been rescued out of slavery. They called this kind of slavery, "Human Trafficking."

My sessions with Shayla were different than the other sessions I've done before, and I wasn't quite used to it. There was little to no riding. It was mostly her being taught how to interact with me while she talked to a counselor. Later, she began being shown how to communicate with both the counselors and me. Once this process started, I began seeing a gradual change in Shayla's demeanor. She spoke and even moved more boldly and with greater confidence. She was, as they say, coming out of her shell. She and I had whole conversations, and I learned so much more about her. It turns out, even after she was rescued, she felt like what she had to say about her past would either bring back awful memories or bring others down. She thought that it was too much for people to handle. But, her isolation wasn't wholly due to her lack of communication. She missed her family. She hadn't seen or talked to them since before she was kidnapped. Even once she was rescued, she knew returning to them would put them and possibly herself in danger since there was no knowing whether or not her captors knew where she lived. But, after a few weeks, she told me that she considered me and everyone else at the farm family.

While I am so glad to be a part of Shayla's life, I look forward to the day when she can be reunited with her family and walk by herself without fear.

Sarah's Story

Hello everyone! My name is Abigail Jenkins. I'm the blog's author, and I've been working at Reins of Life for a little over a year now. For this post, I'm going to be doing something a little different. Instead of having one of my four-legged friends share their stories, I was asked to write about one of our past clients, from the staff's view. For legal reasons, I've not been using the actual names of the patients. So, for now, I'm going to call her Sarah.
Sarah was seven when she started in our program and was referred from a local residential program for women and children in crisis. She had a lot to work through and was very temperamental. Her dad was very controlling of her mom and even tried to kill her by shooting her in the gut. Mom was in the hospital for four months. As far as I know, Dad keeps saying that it was an accident, and tried to convince his daughter that it was all her mom's fault. As soon as mom recovered, she regained custody, and they left. Although Sarah didn't believe all of her dad's lies, when mom took her back, she was rebellious and confused. But, she loved horses.
During her first sessions, she started walking with Pepsi around the fields. Pepsi had never before been used with children because of her nervousness but was calm and confident the whole time.
Sarah and Pepsi made an instant connection and followed each other around. They did a lot of emotional exercises and worked on overcoming anxiety. Meanwhile, Sarah's mom learned to establish healthy boundaries based on watching the sessions. The activities included an approach and retreat method, labeling emotions, and "holding" them while riding, and teaching her the consequences of stuffing emotions. There were places labeled in the arena where it was appropriate to leave emotions, i.e., "you seem to be having a hard time hanging on to fear. Is there a place you need to leave it for a while?" during one of these sessions, Sarah was having a particularly bad day. She was frustrated and was doing her best to find places for all the emotions she had labeled that day. Throughout the sessions, one emotion would remain. Fear was the only emotion she couldn't seem to get rid of. However, when the session was almost over, Sarah took one more good look around the arena. Then had Pepsi walk over to the corner labeled "God." Gently, she leaned over on Pepsi's back and stuck the labeled animal in God's corner. Then she said, "I think I can leave my fear here with God." Tears all around.
After her time at Reins of Life, Sarah continued to be involved in the activities we host, such as Horse Camp. She also was involved in a little thing called Cowgirl Club for a year. Sarah's older now, she's doing very well in school, and both mom and daughter are doing great.

Ivy

Hi there, My name's Ivy! The first thing that people notice about me is that I'm small by horse standards. They think that I'm a pony, but I'm even too small to be called that! I'm considered a miniature horse, and I'm so short that I barely come up to most peoples' knees! So, while I can't be ridden, like most of the horses here at Reins of Life, I help our clients in other ways. For example, one of my favorite activities is a little somethin' called Equine Assisted Learning. It's where a bunch of people get together and work through obstacles as a team! Some of the older horses tell me that we do this because people tend to solve problems better when they do it in groups and that the obstacles are supposed to represent their problems like nasty emotions and stuff. But I just think it's fun! What happens most of
the time is they pet me and groom me, and then we play in the arena. There are all of these obstacles
and fun toys to play games with. My favorite game to play is when the group makes an obstacle, and
then they try to make me go through it without using a lead rope. It's so fun watching them brainstorm
strategies!
Back in late summer, some nice ladies came out to the farm, and together we had so much fun. But,
now it's getting chilly, my winter fluff is coming in, and sessions have ended. We all miss it, but sessions will start again before we know it!

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Maverick & Conner

Hello everyone! It's me, Maverick. A little update on our antics- this morning, it was raining like crazy here at Reins of Life, and, for those of you who don't know, we horses are not particularly fond of getting wet. It makes us feel grimy and slippery. Also, if it stays on for too long, it could develop into an itchy rash. So, what do we do when it rains, you might ask. Well, we roll in the mud. Naturally, the staff wasn't too thrilled at the state of our coats, and we had to be groomed extra carefully. No horse likes caked mud trapped on our backs while wearing a saddle. But, I still say it was worth it.

Anyways, the sky was clear, and the ground was mostly dry by the time sessions started. Since last week's assisted riding sessions, we've been teaching some of our more experienced riders how to ride on their own, with staff walking close by the both of us, of course. Anyhow, it's made my rider, Conner, and I feel more like a team. He's been having an absolute blast and rides just like a cowboy from an old western. We took to some of the trails today, where I slightly stumbled over a large branch. While it was nothing serious, I was a little shaken. However, Conner kept his balance and even helped me to calm down. After the ride, I recalled how he must have walked and held himself, based on what Levi's told me. Conner has improved so much that I can hardly fathom him ever having trouble walking or riding, and I know Levi is proud of him. Even though he's not yet ready to ride comfortably without stirrups, I'm blessed to have Conner as a rider and a friend.

Abe's Story

My name's Abraham, but everyone calls me Abe. Before coming to Reins of Life, I was a trail riding horse. I was moved over here, to Reins of Life, when I retired some years ago due to a spinal injury. But these days, my workload is lighter than ever as an assisted-riding therapy horse.

These past three weeks, I've been working with a young man named Jason. When he and I first met, I could tell that there was a lot on his mind. He wore a solemn expression and zoned in and out of conversations and activities. However, I think he deserves much credit for bravery and determination. It was plain to see that Jason had been through a lot in his past. However, that didn't seem to deter him. He mounted with ease and rode so well that I almost forgot he was there on our trail ride yesterday! By all of this, I could tell that he had been riding before. However, he has a bit of trouble being aware of when to stop, start, or turn. Nevertheless, I believe that those obstacles will be overcome very soon.

First Day Back!

Hey guys, Levi here! Today we launched our first day of this year's assisted riding sessions, and we were all ecstatic! I know that I said that we all missed our riders, but seeing familiar faces (and some new ones too) had us all excited! There were so many clients; we had to have three riders per session, which meant that everyone, staff, volunteers, and horses were working full throttle. It felt good. If there's anything anyone needs to know about horses, it's that we love work. We love having something to do, and we love the people we work with. However, I spent the first couple sessions looking through the bars of the round pen. But, just when I thought that I wasn't going to be used that day, Conner came striding over more confident than I've ever seen him. He's improved so much even over the summer! To my incredible joy, I was led into the arena, tacked up and mounted. The ride went great! Conner knew precisely what to do, and his happiness was evident from his beaming face, and he did everything with almost a charismatic flare. However, he still has a long way to go before reaching full recovery. But, I'm more than willing to go the distance with him.

Comet and Christa

Hello everyone! It's me, Comet. I understand that summer is soon coming to a close and that school has begun again for many, which means that sessions will be starting again very soon! We're all very excited for the cold and warm winter blankets. However, we are mostly looking forward to seeing our riders again.

Not a day has gone by that I haven't thought of little Christa. I could tell that she was different from the minute I saw her, and in the best sort of way. She had a smile that brightened everyone's spirit and an infectious laugh. She didn't seem at all hindered by her weak frame and, although she had a bit of trouble walking over, she was filled with assurance and was without fear.

There was not much of a need to get her acquainted with me, or with anything in general. She was just ready for whatever was to come. However, her body couldn't seem to catch up with her energized spirit, and she was straining with almost every exercise. The ride was a bit rough on her part, but she was still beaming when it was over. As she slid down, she made it over to my nose and gave it a kiss and a stroke.

Since then, Christa and I have been working on her core, getting her strong and it's been quite an adventure filled with significant milestones. She can already keep her balance, for the most part. Christa loves games like Cat-Cow and throwing and catching things as she and I make our way through an obstacle course. She's learning so much and getting stronger every day.

Levi and Kenzie

Hey, ya'll! It’s me, Levi! It's been boiling over here at the farm. You can see the heat rising from the ground, and it's a little too tranquil.

Summer riding camps ended a little over a month ago, and we're all starting to get a bit restless. Both staff and horses are looking forward to autumn. Then, sessions will begin again, and we all enjoy the brisk weather. But, more than that, we all miss our riders.

I've been thinking a lot about little Kenzie. When I first met her, it was hard for me to wrap my head around the idea that someone could be so small, even for a three-year-old. However, I soon discovered that her slightness was because of down syndrome. But, other than that, one could have just assumed that she was only little. I could barely feel her weight when they gently placed her on the bareback pad. She was a bit nervous at first, but soon we were both enjoying ourselves. She kept calling me a cow because of my brown spots, and she made everyone laugh. For someone so little, she has such a big personality.

During the session, she worked some on word association and did wonderfully, but I think that I will always be called cow. I don't mind. After a few more exercises and walks around the arena, we tried some kinesthetics. It was then that Kenzie started to have a little trouble. But, after a few sessions, she's been able to do most of the exercises with ease.

We all love her dearly, and I can't wait to see her again!

Pepsi's Story

Hello there! My name is Pepsi. I'm an American Paint Horse, and I work as an Therapeutic Riding Horse along with Levi, Comet, and a few others. We all love our jobs, and they've impacted us about as much as the children we serve. You see, I was practically a rescue and came from a less-than-comfortable background. I spooked at everything and was terrified of people. But, with a little love, patience, and persistence, I learned that I didn't have to be afraid. Now I know that with good people around me and a trustworthy team, we can overcome almost any challenge. Moreover, I learned that I could become that kind of hope for someone else when I met Sadie.

I remember the first time that I saw her, as she and her siblings ran out of the car to pet us. Sadie and I were immediately drawn to one another. She was so happy and carefree and made everyone around her smile. She had such a hopeful outlook on life, despite suffering from Down Syndrome.
Sadie had a bit of trouble trying to mount me, at first. However, she was persistent and, for her, giving up was not an option. When she got on, I felt her tense up a bit, which was understandable since she had never been on a horse before.

During the first few minutes of the session, we were both on edge, and she hurt my ears when she thought she was going to fall. But, I took courage in how calm my team was and was able to channel that peace to Sadie. She reciprocated far better than most riders, and it gave me even more confidence.
The bond between Sadie and I grows stronger and stronger with each session, and I'm looking forward to conquering our future challenges together.

Comet's Story

Hello all. My name is Comet, and I've been here, at Reins of Life, working as a riding therapy horse for as long as anyone can remember. I love my home and what I do. I especially love little Amy. She's one of my smaller riders and has a hard time balancing and using both sides of her body at the same time. She and I met a few years ago. She was so young but filled with courage. She was hardly afraid of me or any of the other horses. However, she was quite shy around other people and barely spoke.
Once she got on my back, I felt her tremble, but I knew it was from her weak legs and not from fear. Poor thing, she couldn't help it. I could feel her start to slip and immediately adjusted myself and held her left side up. It worked, and for the rest of the ride, I tried my best to keep her from falling.
At the end of the session, some of the workers helped her down as she started to slip off. She and I were both a bit sweaty — me from holding Amy and her from holding on. We were both tired, but I knew that with the kind of courage and determination that she had, she was well on her way to becoming strong enough to hold herself up. She was happy and filled with hope, and I was happy for her.
Today, Amy is stronger than ever. I barely even have to hold her up anymore! When I see her car coming down the drive, I get so excited, and I'm filled with joy when she comes running to stroke my nose. She's no longer shy around people and talks up a storm with everyone else. She makes people laugh and makes me feel calm. I love her so much and can't wait to see what lies ahead for both of us.

Levi’s Story

Hi there! My name is Levi. I'm a thirteen-year-old paint horse, and I love my job. I was born and raised here at Reins of Life, and one of the many things that I do here is work as an adaptive riding therapy horse, helping boys and girls regain their confidence, self-respect, and hope.

Today was a special day for me because I got to meet this cool kid named  Conner. I noticed that Conner had a bit of trouble getting out of the car. He was just barely walking, and the twisted but soft lines on his face told me that he was anxious. It made me a bit anxious too. He leaned against the fence and held out his tender, shaking, little fingers for me to sniff. I didn't want him to be afraid. I let him pet me, and I tried not to step on his little toes. 

Pretty soon, everyone was helping him onto my back. He sat there like a sack of potatoes and was shaking. It hurt a bit, but I knew that he couldn't help it. We walked around for a while, and I could feel him getting more and more comfortable, almost with each stride. His breathing steadied, and he even loosened up a bit, which was a welcome relief since he was holding on to me as if for dear life. 

When the session was over, he slipped off like rag doll. It was an excellent first ride, as far as most first rides go. It made my day seeing Conner's face. He was grinning from ear to ear. He gave me a good rub on my shoulder, and I could hear him tell his parents that he couldn't wait for the next time. Neither can I, Conner. Neither can I.

Our New Home

Reins of Life is getting a new home! We are in the process of moving to a beautiful new location in Eastanollee, Ga. and have been busy getting the land ready. Grading has been done in preparation for a brand new covered arena, offices and living quarters have been renovated, and fences are going in!

Thanks to all the generous donors and volunteers who have helped us prepare our new home!